Check in privately
Each partner answers 10 focused questions about safety, communication, repair, trust, and alignment. It takes under five minutes.
For couples who want the truth
Are we getting
healthier together?
Common Ground gives couples a private weekly check-in, shared summaries, and 90 days of pattern tracking — so hard conversations start with clarity, not memory.
Coming soon · Free to start · No ads
How It Works
Three steps, every week
Unlock together
Once both submit, a shared summary appears — overall tone, category breakdowns, discrepancies, and reflection prompts.
Track the pattern
Over 90 days, watch what improves, what repeats, and where you diverge. Milestone reviews at 30, 60, and 90 days.
Inside the App
See what the experience looks like
Weekly home
Private weekly check-ins
Shared summary
Neutral, structured language
Reflections
Useful in hard conversations
Trend tracking
Patterns across 90 days
Settings
Reminders and privacy
What You Get
Built for calm honesty
Weekly check-in
Rate emotional safety, communication, repair, trust, alignment, and wellbeing on a calm 3-point scale.
Shared summaries
Category breakdowns, discrepancy highlights, and reflection prompts — unlocked only after both partners submit.
AI weekly insight
An optional AI-generated reading of your shared summary, designed for nuance and never for blame.
90-day trend lines
Watch improvement, stagnation, or decline across six relationship categories over a full quarter.
Milestone reviews
Structured summaries at day 30, 60, and 90 — strengths, concerns, biggest gaps, and therapy prompts.
Private safety flags
Sensitive questions about fear, control, and cruelty stay private by default. Support copy, never confrontation.
Privacy first
Your answers are
yours alone
Common Ground was designed so no partner can weaponize scores. Safety-flag answers stay private by default. Shared summaries show category-level patterns, not individual question responses.
- Red-flag responses are never shown to your partner
- Shared summaries use neutral, structured language
- You control exactly what is visible
- No manipulative gamification or partner ranking
Safety promise
"If you felt afraid, controlled, or degraded this week, you do not need to force a joint conversation through the app. Consider bringing this to your therapist or trusted support."
This message appears privately when a safety flag is triggered. Your partner will never see it.
Who It's For
If you're doing the work,
this keeps the record
In therapy
Bring structured summaries into sessions instead of arguing from memory.
Pre-engagement
See whether the relationship is trending toward readiness or away from it.
Long-distance
Stay emotionally connected with a weekly rhythm that works across any distance.
Rebuilding trust
Track whether repair is real or just temporary, over 90 days of honest data.
Start your first
check-in this week
Common Ground is free to start. No ads, no data selling, no surveillance. Just a private space for two people to reflect honestly.
Coming soon · iOS and Android